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Atom Kahn, Erotic Glass Artisan

Wednesday, November 29th, 2006

Atom KahnLooking for a way to stay warm and well connected as the snow piles up here in Seattle? Join glass artist Atom Kahn at his studio in West Seattle next Monday for a glass of wine, and an opportunity to watch him do what he does best: make spectacular erotic art out of molten glass. I got an opportunity to see some of his work first hand at an event recently, and I’m looking forward to seeing how it’s made. Not to mention he’ll be offering a 20 percent discount for purchases made during the event…

Q: Tell us a bit about yourself and how you become a glass artist. 
 
I was raised in Southern California in the 70′s in a, shall we say “Liberal” family with both my mom and dad being into theatre and art, so I had the opportunity to take art classes at a very early age. My first form of erotic art was actually in 2nd grade with an assignment for a mobile made from magazine pictures. Well…..my dad half jokingly gave me one of his Playboy’s (something I never had to sneak to look at) and I proceeded to finish my project. So after the big “Critique” in the principal’s office the next day, with my parents…..erotica was my path! I have used many media in my art but working with molten glass is a unique experience. It works well for erotic forms because in its natural state, it will always have bulbous, curvy shapes!
 
Atom Kahn ArtworkQ: It feels just wrong to call your hand-crafted creations “sex toys.” I’d go with “art you can play with.”  Where did the inspiration to make these come from? 
 
Although its very hard and often associated with being cold and fragile, and upon breaking, can become quite sharp and scary. In the 13 years I have been working with hot glass, I have changed that whole perspective and seen its true state and felt the soft curves and strong forms that it can be. In my larger sculptural pieces, I create blown forms that have big, round areas often contouring to narrow rippling areas….much like the human body. With such a high gloss, oils and anything slippery have a wonderful, sensual feeling on the glass surface next to your skin. And with the ability to make these very organic, embracing shapes…it was just a natural progression! 
 
Atom Kahn ArtworkQ: How many hours of work goes into making each one?
 
Each toy takes an average of about 45 minutes to create and that is the reason that each one is so unique. I do make some of the designs as a regular shape because people really enjoy them, but each one will be a little bit different on the curvy details. Making glass objects in this manner is the oldest form of glassmaking known to man. Each toy starts as a molten ball of pure crystal clear glass that is drawn from a furnace that is like a small bathtub full of liquid glass, idling around 2150 degrees fahrenheit. The colors are applied at this point in various techniques, constantly returning the ball to the furnace to reheat it and keep it liquidity. This is why it is such a process: if the glass is allowed to cool too quickly, it will literally shatter to pieces in just a few minutes. Some of the forms, after a full day in the cooling chamber, go on to be worked for 30 mins to an hour on a polishing machine.
 
Atom Kahn ArtworkQ: You’re hosting a happy hour at your studio on Dec. 4. Will we be able to watch you creating some of these?
 
Yes! I will be demonstrating how the process happens and will be making toys for an upcoming show. Everyone is welcome to huddle around the fire and watch as this ball of fiery honey looking goo is transformed into a sensual piece of erotic art that just calls to you…”Pleeaase touch Me!!” Questions are always welcome too….I love to share this experience with people and even offer classes for people who want to try this amazing art form. 
 
Q: If I wanted to buy one of these beauties for someone special at your event, how much will it cost?
 
They start around $75.00 and get up to $300+ for the larger, more ornate designs and I can also do custom designs for people who like something very unique. I will be offering a 20% discount during this event and that applies to the price for a class as well. I really enjoy making these erotic pieces and its great to have people collect art they can use and enjoy.

Atom’s website is located at www.atom913.com.

Barry Hurd: The best asset of any community is the talent of its members

Monday, November 27th, 2006

Barry HurdI met Barry through a conversation in Biz Talk a few weeks ago, and that conversation led to us having coffee. Where we talked about something we’re both really excited about: social networks. Biznik is a social network for independent business people, and Barry works for a startup called Blogging Systems that provides turn-key community blog networks for the real estate industry. If that’s a topic that any of you are interested in, or if you’d just like to join us for a drink and talk about your business, Barry’s hosting a Biznik happy hour in Lake Forest Park on Thursday, November 30. But first, a bit more about Barry, from Barry.

Q: More than most people, you’ve spent a ton of time checking out social networks and trying to understand them. How’d you develop that interest?

Laughingly, I am a freak of nature. My father was a computer expert for the National Security Agency. I had a strange childhood. As a kid I played with computers under his guidance and tried to understand how they worked. That wasn’t really my niche, but as I grew up my education and skills put me in a corporate office working with online recruiting.

My computer knowledge eventually combined with my experiences in the social network of the recruiting world, and I soon discovered my love of connecting the dots between people. That led to the past ten years where I became an expert in online marketing and social networking; studying everything from banner ads to blogs- working on different projects ranging in complexity of things like my own personal journal to Monster.com.

Q: Where are you currently working, and what are you doing there?

I work with a team at BloggingSystems.com as the Director of Business Development. We have a bunch of smart minds that have created a community blogging platform that helps people form communities of almost any type. My focus is understanding our technical abilities and finding new markets that can benefit from our technology. I also help our team create new solutions for clients and build relationships with partners in other industries. It’s a great role for me; merging my personal interests as tech-geek and problem solver.

Q: How long have you been blogging yourself, and what do you blog about?

Good question. I’ve actually maintained different online journals since 1990 or so. I’ve used blogging for connecting with friends, making introductions with new people, handling projects within virtual teams, and building different communities with people around the world. Professionally I blog about industries that I see having huge benefits with the Blogging Systems platform- real estate, mortgage companies, credit unions, newspapers, and education. The list goes on and on. I’m constantly reading information on any group or industry that can benefit in nurturing an online community.

Personally I write about everything else. I am a tech geek by nature. Every now and then I find some gizmo or site that I think has an interesting feature. I also write creatively about my daily life (I’ve done list like top five things at Greenlake) and viewpoints to keep my friends up to speed on personal events. Believe it or not, I also tend to blog a lot of poetry (sometimes 2-3 pieces a day).

Q: What do you think are some interesting trends right now in the social networking space?

I think there is an amazing growth spike happening. The social networking space is at it’s infancy. We went through the 90s having commercial internet destroy a lot of the human connection we had. For lack of a better phrase, the web destabilized some of our real-world aspects of community. Technology has now developed the tools to help rebuild that lost sense of personal interaction and people are flocking to it like crazy.

In the big picture- the blog total is up to 55+ million, communities like Biznik are growing at amazing rates, and even major corporations are starting to discover how powerful virtual communities are becoming overnight. Things like cell phones and PDAs are helping to cross the barriers of web connectivity and offline geography. For me, the real exciting part of my daily effort is helping real world people and businesses merge the power of online communities into an actual geographic or professional area.

Q: You’re hosting an event on November 30th that will be about “friendly ideas for doing business online through blogging, search engine optimization, word of mouth, and buzz marketing.” What can members who attend your event expect to learn and experience?

I’m hoping that attendees will sit down and enjoy some in-depth conversation regarding how online trends are opening up really big opportunities for them. I like to share my experience and viewpoints with other people. I have a talent for what I do. I also hope that attendees bring some of their own personal energy to the conversation and help me understand what challenges they are facing. It would be great if a few talented people showed up and started other conversations regarding experiences they’ve had, and leave me with some amazing new train of thought at the end of the night.

My end goal of having discussion groups with creative professionals is this- I really hope that the Biznik attendees realize the best asset of any community is the talent of its members. I think there is a lot of information and intellect in the Biznik crowd- I can only hope that someone shares with me as much as I can share with them.

Barry’s personal blog is Technical Disaster.

19-year-old entrepreneur Ross Hill hosts the first international Biznik event in Australia

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006

Ross HillBiznik now has members in 46 countries. But so far, all of our events have been in the United States. Thanks to Ross Hill, that’s about to change. The 19-year-old entrepreneur and university student from Australia will host Cashflow 101, the first international Biznik event on Wednesday, Dec. 6. I’ve mentioned Ross before in this post, but this occasion merits a full interview!

Q: Tell me a bit about yourself – you’re in university, yes?

I’m studying Entrepreneurship of all things! And yes there is a degree for that. It’s similar to a Bachelor of Business but with a major in Entrepreneurship. We study regular business areas such as marketing and finance but they are focussed on startups so we spend more time on things like low cost marketing techniques and raising capital. We also get to meet a range of entrepreneurs in the ‘Entrepreneurial and New Ventures’ class and hear their stories of both success and failure which is really insightful.

Q: You’re also running a business while you’re in school. Tell me about Thrive.

I’ve been playing with the web since I was 12 but started thinking more commercially in 2003. After doing a couple of sites word got out and I ended up getting a few leads through “networks” – a lot of people think that it is some big, scary term but my networks in those days were friends, people that my parents knew, and contacts of school teachers. In July 2006 I thought it was time to get a bit more serious and replace the “Ross Hill” business cards with something more solid, so I registered Thrive Web Marketing.

I think website design is a great way to get into business because of the low barriers to entry. Like a lot of freelancers and consultants, all I needed to get started was a mobile phone, a couple of business cards and my trusty Powerbook. It does cause a problem though, in that there are so many other website designers out there – search for web designer on Biznik and there are 233 results!

Running a business while in school is fantastic. It really suits my university course because I can apply what is learnt directly, and hand in the Thrive marketing and financial plans as assignments! You get feedback on your assignment, which is good academically, but it can also be applied practically in the business. Since all of the lecturers have a lot of experience this can be really helpful. In our third year of study every student actually has to start their own business anyway, so I guess I’ll be starting my second by then. Another advantage to having a business while studying is that I have had a lot of class mates hire me! My classmates and I were talking about the cost of our degree but some of us will probably end up breaking even by the end of it.

Q: I find it’s pretty rare to meet entrepreneurs who are under 30. Why do you think that is?

In a post on my blog called School Versus Real Life I quoted Chris Yeh saying “School isn’t like real life. In fact, it’s about as far from real life as can be imagined. The lessons that let you be successful in school (follow the rules, work hard, know the right answers) are completely the opposite of those that help you become a successful entrepreneur (change the rules, work smart, know the right questions).”

At the end of 2005 I completed 13 years of learning how to go out and get a job.
It isn’t ironic that most people go out and get a job, or study more at TAFE or university before finding work.

I think young people find it hard to get support to start a new business. Public perception is that it is too risky and that 90% of businesses fail within a year. That said, I think that there are actually a lot of young entrepreneurs around, or at least people with aspirations of starting their own business in the future. My university course has 70 excited young entrepreneurs, and with groups like VentureTribe they can get together with like-minded young people who will support them while they get started. The latest site in the Thrive Portfolio, Free Business Tips got some press recently and within a few days most of the members on the forum were young people. We just need places that we can go to find some positive energy and have someone asking us “why not?” instead of telling us why not!

Testing an idea is easy, and that is what makes the successful stand out from those who just mention their million-dollar-idea over a beer at a barbecue. With the internet you can test whether there is a market for your ideas without spending much at all. But you can just as easily do it in the real world as well. I came across the story of Innocent Juice and love it. They’d made juice at home and thought it could be a good business, so they bought a bunch of fruit and set up a stand at a music festival. They had a big sign that said “Do you think we should give up our jobs to make these smoothies?” and had two garbage bins underneath – one saying ‘YES’ and the other saying ‘NO’. At the end of the day the YES bin was full so they resigned the next day and got started building their new business which now commands $120,000,000 worth of the market.

I think people just need to realise how easy it is to get started. If you have an idea you are sitting on right now, ask yourself what is the simplest way that you can test to see if there are people who would buy your product or service? If there are then you already have your first sale!

Q: What gets you excited about entrepreneurship?

I’m sure you know the feeling – you walk into a networking event and there is this buzz in the room. Everybody is so excited about what they are doing and hearing about what everyone else is doing. That positive vibe and helpful attitude is addictive. People with jobs do “work”, entrepreneurs love what they do and find ways to get paid to do it. How could you choose to do anything else?

Q: How’d you learn about Biznik and why did you choose Biznik to host your event?

I stumbled across Biznik through a link on somebody’s blog and I liked what I saw so I signed up for an account and stuck around. The manifesto just shines and when I saw that you use Flickr and that there is a podcast I knew I had to look deeper. I don’t think I have seen a networking group with such a well-rounded online presence. Most of you are still in Seattle, though, so I had to put Geelong on the map! When I joined there were only 5 people in the whole of Australia but I have recruited a few more locals since then.

I had a game of Cashflow with a few guys a couple of weeks ago and it was really good fun so I thought I better pick a date for the next game. There were a couple of other Cashflow events listed but Biznik was clearly under-represented down under so I submitted the idea as an event. Now I can just send people to the Biznik link Geelong Cashflow 101 Night and they can RSVP there so it is a really simple process. It will be good to see what features are built into Biznik 2.0 – which sounds really exciting so far.

Ross’s website and blog is Thrive Web Marketing.

Seattle writing coach Rachel Whalley helps entrepreneurs Write with Meaning

Friday, November 10th, 2006

Rachel Whalley, Write with Meaning, Seattle writing coachBlogging is a fantastic way to put a human face on your business — if you know how to write with passion and flair. But what if you don’t? What if a blank screen and a blinking cursor just reminds you of term papers and sleepless nights?

“Sometimes all you need is a little expertise and some support from a compassionate person you trust,” says Rachel Whalley, who has made a businesses out of teaching people to Write with Meaning. Next Monday is a great opportunity to learn from her first hand, when she teams up with Dominic Canterbury to offer a class on business blogging. But let’s find out a little more about her first, shall we?

Q: Teaching people how to write is typically an academic pursuit. How’d you come to do it for a living outside of academia, and what do you enjoy most about teaching people to write?

I did teach classes while getting my first graduate degree. My favorite part of being a teacher was the individual student conferences, where I could connect with each person. I have a much easier time giving a person what she needs if I can get a sense of how she learns best and how my message needs to be formed in order to reach her. From my perspective, ten minutes of one-on-one time is worth four hours of lectures pulled straight from the textbook.

I don’t particularly like working inside of academia. It’s oddly political and in a less direct manner than the corporate world. I also prefer to make a decent living, which is much more possible as an entrepreneur. And I want to work with people who are invested in improving. Your average college student could give a rat’s ass, honestly. He’s just trying to pass his classes so he can keep partying on daddy’s dime.

I love helping people improve their writing because the excitement is contagious. Helping people reverse the damage from mean English teachers and conquer their writing fears…it’s a rush. The same is true when I help people get unstuck in their writing projects. Entrepreneurs LOVE what they do for a living, and I love helping them talk about it and bring their passion to a greater audience. If more people could do what they loved rather than what they barely tolerated, the world would be a much better place. It’s all about world peace, really.

Q: You and Dominic Canterbury are hosting an event about business blogging. Can you tell me more about it?

Our class is a combination of Dominic’s marketing wisdom and my writing expertise, packed into two hours. Blogging for business is such a new tool and many people don’t know how to start and/or how to do it right. We think that blogs give future clients an intermediary step between first exposure and actually meeting you or trying your product.  And, it’s far better than a static website because it can actually demonstrate your expertise, as well as your personality. Personality, as if we didn’t know, is key for a successful entrepreneur.

Q: If I attend your upcoming class, what can I expect to learn?

You will learn a bevy of things, including how a blog boosts business, how to setup a blog, who to blog for, what to write about, and how to say it. Most successful business bloggers are not teachers or coaches by nature, so there’s little help out there for people who want to learn to walk the tightrope between personal and professional writing. I’ll be helping you learn to step more confidently on that wire, like your own balancing pole. And of course, any class that gives you access to Dominic’s marketing insight is a great deal!

The class will be part material-presentation by me and Dominic, part Q & A, and part collaboration in small groups with other Bizniks. I’ve really enjoyed classes that include time to work on ideas with other people, since more minds increase creativity AND it gives me a chance to network. I’m excited that we’re incorporating small-group work into our class.

I measure the success of a class by how much I leave with. You will walk away from this class with all your essential business blogging questions answered, stronger connections with other Bizniks, and (drum roll, please)  personalized topic ideas for five business blog posts.

Q: What’s the most common writing mistake you see indie business people making?

Not revising. You can catch so many embarrassing or confusing mistakes (poor grammar, repeated words, nonsense phrases) in your writing just by giving it a good once over. I can’t tell you how many people think they’re bad writers because they don’t write a perfect first draft. I’m gonna let you in on a dirty little secret–NO ONE writes perfect first drafts. Not me, not Tolstoy, not Seth Godin. No one. If you think you’re a bad writer, stop and consider whether you ever review your writing before publishing it. It may just be that you’re a good writer and a crappy editor.

Learn more about this upcoming event and RSVP online. Rachel’s website is writewithmeaning.com.

Tad Hargrave brings his Radical Business Intensive to Seattle November 17 – 19, 2006

Saturday, November 4th, 2006

Tad Hargrave, Radical BusinessA lot of indie business people fail to distinguish themselves by trying to be everything to everybody – that is, everybody who they think can afford their services. Tad Hargrave doesn’t have this problem. He’s a living, breathing, kilt-wearing example of how nich-marketing yourself can get your customer’s attention, and hold it. How does he do it? Well, for starters, he works only with “green, local, sustainable, holistic, life-affirming and otherwise conscious entrepreneurs.” And then there’s the kilt he wears while teaching seminars. And the fact that his seminars are “pay what you can.” Intrigued? Tad will be sharing his marketing wisdom to a Seattle audience November 17-19. I interviewed him recently to learn more about his approach to marketing and what anyone who attends his event can expect to learn.

Q: Your Biznik profile lists your job title as “marketing consultant to hippies.” Can you elaborate?

Sure. Basically, it means that I work exclusively with businesses that are some combination of locally owned, community minded, conscious, green, ethical and sustainable. I carefully screen my clients – even for workshops. The more radical they are, the more I like them. What I found was that there were no trainings or services out there for these folks. And I think they’re needed. I mean, there’s a lot of ways to talk about it but basically we live in what I call the “Suicide Economy” and we’re trying to shift over to a more “Conscious Economy,” you know? But that’s a hard transition, especially for business owners. And there’s not much help. Most of the marketing training available are incredibly, incredibly expensive and also very . . . how to say it – they’re aggressively capitalist. I found it a distraction. But at the Radical Business Intensive weekends it’s only hippies. It’s only business owners who embrace the notion of a triple bottom line of not only financial profit, but also people and the planet. It makes the events way more exciting, safe and open.

Q: Tell me about your upcoming event in Seattle. 

I’m getting really excited about it.

The Radical Business Intensive will be happening in Seattle Nov 17-19. It’s being sponsored by BALLE Seattle and run in partnership with Biznik member and marketing genius Dominic Canterbury.

It’s a weekend-long training where conscious entrepreneurs can meet each other, have some space to reflect and wrestle with some of the tough issues of marketing their businesses effectively. We focus on the basic, core fundamentals of marketing.

I guess there’s a few main things about it that I think are particularly cool.

First, nobody pays a cent to me when they register. No credit cards. No cheques. No cash. People don’t pay me a dime until the last 7 minutes of the weekend.

Second, in those last seven minutes, people only pay me what they thought it was worth. I work on a pay-what-you-can basis, based on what you can afford philosophy. You like it a little? Just give me a little. You like it a lot? Then you can give me a lot. People still have a hard time believing this, that there’s no big catch, but there really isn’t. I even have people pay with three cheques so they can break the payment up to make it easier on them.

Third, people get like 331 pages of grounding materials worth more than $500 before they ever arrive. And the materials are really, really good.

Q: How successful have you been with your “pay what you can” pricing strategy? I have to admit we’ve had limited success with that approach on Biznik so far. 

It’s gone really well. I’ve learned a lot about how to do it and how not to do it. I think they jury’s still out on it in some ways but I’m young and single and this is the time for me to experiment, you know? But it’s gone well.

Here’s the main lessons I’ve learned:

1) You’ve got to be clear that pay what you can does not equal “free”. It must be clear that paying nothing is not an option. I think even if somebody just gives me a dollar . . . there’s something about respect there in the ritual of acknowledging that an exchange happened. You must pay something.

2) You must make clear to people how much they would be paying for this anywhere else. Most people will have no idea what to give. They might not know that I’ve gone to 5 day marketing seminars that cost $5000 (not including accommodations). They might not realize that the average weekend seminar would cost about $1693. So, it’s important to help people understand the value that they’re receiving. It’s so important to really communicate this again and again. To take it seriously.

3) Multiple cheques. In my situation people used to just pay me with one cheque. And I can’t tell you how many times people said, “Tad, the weekend was amazing. I want to give you more but . . . this is all I can afford . . .” They felt so ashamed and I was like, “Dude, I don’t care.” but they did and I realized that this same person would likely now avoid me in the future because they felt like they owed me something. It was odd. So then I started making it mandatory for people to pay with three cheques. Not only did it almost double the amount of money I got but I stopped getting the “I wish I could pay more” responses. It felt more . . . comfortable for both sides.

I think it works well for one time things but I really question its applicability for long term situations. Like pay what you can monthly coaching? I can’t imagine that working.

And I think you have to be ready to only receive a fraction of what you would if people paid full price. But that’s the trade off – you get less money per person, but you get WAY more people because there’s so little risk.
 

Q: How do you define your work as “radical?”

What’s not needed right now is to rearrange the deck chairs on the Titanic.

The idea of trying to patch up the Titanic or just “greenwash it” to make it look prettier and more sustainable misses the point so profoundly.

We need another boat entirely. Abandon ship.

It’s similar with the greenwashing that major corporations are doing today.

On my website I list the values of Radical Business as:

“Fair trade not ‘Free’ trade, alternative education that nurtures the whole child, not just reading, writing and ‘rithmetic’, a maximization of relationships, not of profits; honesty and transparency, not more lies, hype and manipulation; naturalness, not pretense; the growth of consciousness and creativity , not brands and market share; democracy and decentralized ownership, not concentrated wealth; a living return, not the highest return; a living wage, not the minimum wage; a fair price, not the lowest price; sharing, not hoarding; simplicity, not luxury; life-serving, not self-serving; partnership, not domination; cooperation, not competition; win-win exchange, not win-lose exploitation; family farms, not factory farms; biodiversity, not mono-crops; cultural diversity , not monoculture; creativity, not conformity; slow food, not fast food; our bucks, not Starbucks; our mart, not Wal-Mart; a love of life , not a love of money.”

But to me it’s really coming from this deep sense that we need large not small changes. We don’t need a “more sustainable” Suicide Economy. I think that whole focus is bullshit.

I mean, God bless all work to decrease the violence and damage that groups like The Natural Step are doing at all levels, but the idea of “greening the Suicide Economy” as a goal? I feel horrified and disgusted by that. As a means? Possibly. As an ends? No way.

Plus, the idea of talking about making the Suicide Economy, Empire, the Corporate Global Economy – whatever you want to call it – MORE sustainable is misguided at best because that presupposes that it already IS sustainable and now we’re just making it more so, you know? The Suicide Economy is NOT sustainable. It is violent. It can be made less violent but . . . is that it? Is that the extent of our vision? To decrease violence?

No.

Our ends and our means must both shift – not a little but a lot. We don’t need reasonable and conservative changes – we need radical change. We all feel it. We need to find a way to meet human needs and the needs of all life without imperiling future generations. Hell, without imperiling THIS generation.

So, I’m constantly pushing people to consider what more we can do as entrepreneurs.

Q: What role do you see business playing in making positive change?

A major one. I think that one of the most powerful, practical and most easily embraceable things we can and must do is build up local, living economies. There are more radical things we can do, but this, to me, is a major priority. There are things that business owners can do that non-profits simply can’t.

We need to rebuild and renew locally, even as we work to dismantle global systems of oppression. We need to grow our food locally again. We need to get to know our neighbors again. We need to support locally owned businesses again.

Here’s two articles that go more deeply into this:

http://www.tadhargrave.com/index_html/Welcome
http://radicalbusiness.blogspot.com/2006/09/as-radical-as-we-wanna-be.html

Q: What’s the biggest mistake you see indie businesses people making? 

The first thing I’d say is that it’s  different for each business. I’ve actually seen eleven major problems that crop up and I created a really simple diagnostic tool  – a quiz of sorts – that entrepreneurs can use to pinpoint where they’re strong and where they’re weak on a general level. I get raves reviews about it:

www.tadhargrave.com/Virtual_Workshops/horriblehundred

But to answer it directly, I’d say the biggest mistake is not making their marketing a priority. They put it off. They just don’t handle it. And I can’t really blame them, up until now there haven’t been many trainings or books or consultants targeted to a conscious, green, local business. What this often creates is a strange incongruence in a business. The inner reality is wonderful. The products and services kick ass. But . . . no one knows about them.

Tad’s Radical Business Intensive is coming to Seattle on November 17-19. It will be held at the Youngstown Cultural Arts Center in West Seattle. To learn more, visit www.tadhargrave.com/RBI

Aaron Silverberg: I work with clients to find their ENOUGH and live it bravely

Friday, October 20th, 2006

Aaron SilverbergAaron Silverberg is a Seattle life coach who makes a living helping people create happy, fulfilled lives. He’s also Biznik’s most recent event host, with an event coming up on November 1st, “How to increase compassion in your life.” I interviewed Aaron recently to find out more about his services and his approach to life coaching.

Q: Your profile says that you “help people create a happy, fulfilled life across the board.” That’s a pretty broad statement! How exactly do you do that?

A person lives a 24 hour day each day, composed mainly of a mix of sleeping, eating, sexing, working, playing, washing, defacating/urinating, cleaning, cooking, shopping, exercising, entertainment, socializing, computering and responding to voice mail. Everyone is challenged by this modern lifestyle to accomplish a ton of tasks and still find time to kick back and heave a sigh of contentment. The best approximation of “happiness” is a client reaching full acceptance of their CHOSEN mix of these. Our mind is usually in acquisition or protection mode, we nerver have enough _____ (fill in the blanks) or are completely safe/secure. I work with my clients to find their ENOUGH and live it bravely.

Q: How’d you become a life coach?

I think I always was a Rennaisance man of sorts, from majoring in philosophy to playing flute, dancing, master level chess player, professional tennis, writing poetry, adventuring in the wilderness, acting in improvisational theatre and stage, reading voraciously, yoga, aikido to the study and living of Dharma (Buddhism).

I never had a mentor in my formative years (early 20′s) to help me INTEGRATE my interests so that I understood how each of the areas of my life (work, play, relationships,etc.) contributed to my overall goal of life (for me: to love and be loved)

Practically I attended the Academy for Coach Training in 1999-2000 and honed my already considerable counseling skills to another level and received a Professional Life Coach certification. I have been in practice since 2000.

Q: Do you have a specific focus within life coaching? (business success, personal development, etc)

Yes and no. Most coaches choose a niche to be successful because coaching is not as widely known and utilized as therapy. There are two sides to that coin, one you have more expertise in that field/niche and can provide your clients more concentrated consulting but it also prevents you from coming into contact with clients that you might connect with deeply and co-create the greatest learning/progress.

The areas I’m obviously most expert in are: IT, artistic expression (writing, music, dance, theatre and photography), living green and healthy, holistic bodymind practices (meditation, yoga, tai-chi), outdoor adventuring, Buddhism and being a successful divorced dad.

Q: You’re teaching a Biznik event on 11/01 titled “How to increase compassion in your life.” I’m suppose we could all use a bit more compassion in our lives, but what’s on most of our minds is how to increase our business success. Are those two things related?

I am teaching self-directed compassion. And yes they are intimately related because to the degree to which an independent business person is freed up mentally/physically/emotionally to succeed in their business means the degree to which they are not distracted by issues. I.e. if I spend 2 hours exasperatedly pounding on an inoperable printer I’m counter-productive. If I quickly forgive that breakdown stay cool and work around it then I will keep my prosperity flowing.

Q: What will members who attend your event walk away with?

Some very useful techniques to unstick themselves from issues/distractions. These techniques are thoroughly refreshing, invigorating, get the energy/chi flowing and conducive to optimal concentration, focus and clear thinking, which in turn will help them create win-win situations in their business endeavors.

Aaron’s website is www.offthemap.net
His blog is at Diamonds Only Water Can Wear